“To live is to die to how we wanted it to be…” (Jack Kornfield)
Amongst the hormonal havoc and the avalanche of inevitable changes and life readjustments surrounding me these last couple of years, a kind of transfiguration has taken place, leading me towards embracing a whole new way of living. These are now the perks of my middle-age life and I love the idea of sharing them with you:
- A deep understanding of my true nature.
- Knowledge of who my true friends are.
- No more worry about belonging and fitting in.
- The ability to find joy through pain and allowing myself to feel both at the same time.
- The choice to thoroughly live each moment.
- The know-how of my feelings and emotions.
- The love and true acceptance of myself.
- True vulnerability.
- A real sense of who I am. Not who I should be or who people expect me to be.
- Knowledge in loss and the creation of many opportunities for growth through it.
- Less urgency and more surrender.
- A total disregard for anniversaries of any kind because every day is special.
- True connection to a Higher Source (for me, God) not out of duty or need, but out of unconditional love.
- Experience: accomplishment does not guarantee success, being busy is not the same as feeling alive, control is an illusion, and happiness is a choice.
- The wisdom of knowing and accepting that the only thing certain is uncertainty.
- The freedom to now get anything I missed in life while I was busy pushing, working and achieving.
- A new deep sense of joy and a strong passion in my professional work.
- A sense of reprioritizing so reading and nature doesn’t stay last in the list ever again.
- A deep feeling of freedom from perfection.
- Being able to accept each and everyone as they are without judgments.
- Discovering that cats are better than dogs, especially Bengals!
Choose to be kind and grateful.